Sex
He needs sex. For the obvious physical reasons, but just as equally, he needs that connection with you. Your husband wants to be wanted. All the time. Quality over quantity doesn’t fly…
Respect
He needs you to respect him. To adore him so much that the words and the actions and the affirmations you give him, all reflect a nature of respect and honor. So build him up in public and in private.
Your Touch
He needs your kisses, your caresses, and your hand on his shoulder. Your touch revives him. Never stop touching him.
A Confident Woman
He needs that confident woman back. Not a proud or stuck up woman, but a woman who knows who she is and thrives.
A Healthy Body
He needs you to take care of yourself. Not because he desires a size 2 model, but because it makes you happier and more full of life. So drink that water today. Exercise. Get your rest. Find ways to remove stress.
A Wife That Smiles
Smile at him. Smile at your children. Smile because you are content. He needs to know that you are happy inside, and your face will show it.
How Valuable Your Words Are
When you make those comments… the ones where you are joking but tearing him down? They matter. Those words… the ones where you cheer him on? Those matter! Give life to your husband through your words today.
Your Best
He doesn’t want perfect, he wants your best. When you shared those vows, for better or for worse, he believed in you. He believes in you today. Just do you very best, because he knows all that you are capable of.
Your Desperate Need For Him
Men need to know that they come first. Before coffee dates with friends, before raising children, before housework and hobbies, they need to know that you are desperately and deeply mad about him above all those other things.
For You To Realize Your Own Beauty
He tells you that you are beautiful, but he wants you to really believe it! So look in the mirror and accept your beauty today. He looks past your imperfections and sees all those amazing qualities you possess…
To Accept His Flaws
No one is perfect and he messes up daily. He wants to know that you are there through thick and thin, even when he’s grumpy and you want to call him a jerk. He needs to know you accept his flaws because you see his heart and desire to be a better man.
Understand His Love For Sports
Or cars, or music, or running, or anything he is passionate about. Understand it… or if you don’t, learn to.
An Optimistic Wife
Stop being so negative. Honestly in marriage is huge, but he needs to hear a positive wife more than a negative wife
A Wife Who Spends Time With Jesus
A woman that loves God above all else, will be the best wife! When you’ve been with Jesus, all the other things will happen. Jesus is the glue. Jesus is the the one who will put a smile in your heart and on your face. So meet with Jesus. Your husband needs this above all else.
For You To Laugh Together
He loves your silliness. The way you laugh, and even maybe snort because you laughed so hard. Laughter is so healthy for any relationship, especially in marriage.
All I can say is thank you. We have reached a very large bump in our road, some of him and some of it me, these reminders are things I need.
Praying for you Kelly! Sometimes it just takes being reminded about going back to basics. Thanks for stopping by and commenting! Love, Traci